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Aftercare is often associated with kink, but the need for post-intimacy care exists in all sexual encounters. This insight covers why emotional and physical tending after vulnerability matters for everyone. When most people hear "aftercare", they immediately think of BDSM. Whilst aftercare is crucial in those contexts, it isn't kink...
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Mention cuckolding or hotwifing and conversations get awkward fast. People either dismiss these dynamics as degrading or assume they signal relationship dysfunction. Having lived these experiences myself and worked with numerous people exploring them professionally, I've learned the reality is far more nuanced. What we're actually talking about These terms...
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The space where we share intimacy needs to feel safe and comfortable. Our nervous systems are constantly scanning our environment for safety cues, and when we create spaces that signal care and comfort, it allows us to relax into an experience more fully. A note on neurodivergent nervous systems As...
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When I first began working as an intimacy provider, I thought I understood people fairly well. I'd done years of personal development work, immersed myself in understanding various therapeutic modalities and considered myself pretty insightful about human behaviour. Looking back, I was adorably naive about just how much this work...
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Most people don't realise how significantly porn has influenced their understanding of sex. I'm not here to shame anyone for watching porn. Axel and I create it ourselves. But as an intimacy provider, I witness the damage caused when people assume what they've seen on screen is an accurate instruction...
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We rarely talk about how differently people experience physical touch, and this silence creates so much unnecessary confusion in intimate relationships. I've spent over 15 years exploring physical connection with people, and I've watched countless mismatches unfold not because anyone was doing anything wrong, but because we assume touch means...
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Your body communicates in ways words never can. The rhythm of your breath, how you navigate space with another person, the quality of your touch, can all speak volumes about who you are and how you connect with others. Most of us have learnt to rely almost entirely on verbal...
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Admitting you're curious about something new sexually can feel incredibly exposing. Perhaps you've been quietly wondering about a particular experience for months, or something you came across recently sparked your interest and now you can't quite shake the thought. Whatever the case, there's often a substantial gap between private curiosity...
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We live in a society that treats sexuality like it has an expiry date, as if desire automatically switches off somewhere between your fortieth birthday and when you start complaining about how loud restaurants have become. The message seems to be that sexual vitality belongs exclusively to the young, and...
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Female pleasure is complex, individual and often misunderstood. This honest guide dispels common myths, explores what actually works and offers shame-free education about bodies, arousal and the many paths to satisfaction. Female pleasure. It's a topic surrounded by myths, half-truths and assumptions that leave many people (of all genders) feeling...
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After years in this work, I've noticed that the most transformative encounters aren't the most elaborate ones. They're the moments when someone feels safe enough to stop performing and simply exist as they are, trusting they'll be met with genuine acceptance. Building containers for authentic exploration My path to this...
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Have you ever tried to explain your taste in music to someone? Human attraction works similarly. It's complex, nuanced and doesn't always fit neatly into the categories we've been given. Yet when it comes to sexuality, we often feel pressure to pick a box and stay in it forever. Understanding...
Read more about Attraction, sexual identity and everything in between
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As an escort, I find myself working in a profession that's frequently shrouded in misconceptions, preconceived notions and societal judgements. What I witness daily however is something far more profound and fundamentally human. The individuals who seek my services arrive with deeply personal motivations, each carrying their own story that...
Read more about Beyond the stereotypes: why people see sex workers
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