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Desire isn't considered a positive thing in society. More often we talk about keeping it in check, being careful with it, making sure it doesn't get out of hand. Which is interesting, because in my experience desire is an important part of being human. When you feel it, something in...
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While we often prioritise verbal communication, our deepest connections are frequently written in the language of movement. The Primal Dialogue Long before we developed complex speech, we communicated through gestures and physicality. This ancient system hasn't vanished; it's simply been overshadowed. When you move with someone, whether swaying in a...
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We're living through an age where performance has become the default. Our feeds are filled with polished versions of reality whilst the messy, genuine moments stay hidden. We've learned to present acceptable versions of ourselves rather than who we actually are, and the gap between those two has grown exhausting....
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Mention that you're pursuing pleasure as a life priority and watch how quickly people assume you're irresponsible, selfish or morally bankrupt. The word conjures images of excess and people who've abandoned all responsibility in favour of immediate gratification. But what if our cultural dislike of hedonism is actually doing us...
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Hotwifing and cuckolding get tangled together constantly, treated as interchangeable when they're actually quite different experiences with distinct psychological foundations. In our work with escort couples exploring both dynamics, I've noticed that confusion around terminology often prevents people from understanding what they're actually seeking. What is hotwifing? Hotwifing is a...
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he importance of sexual self-discovery and personal exploration One of the most powerful things you can do for your intimate life is something many people feel deeply uncomfortable about: genuinely getting to know your own body and desires through personal exploration. I see this hesitation regularly in my work. People...
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Aftercare is often associated with kink bookings, but the need for post-intimacy care exists in all sexual escort encounters. This insight covers why emotional and physical tending after vulnerability matters for everyone. When most people hear "aftercare", they immediately think of BDSM. Whilst aftercare is crucial in those contexts, it...
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Mention cuckolding or hotwifing and conversations get awkward fast. People either dismiss these dynamics as degrading or assume they signal relationship dysfunction. Having lived these experiences myself and worked with numerous people exploring them professionally, I've learned the reality is far more nuanced. What we're actually talking about These terms...
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The space where we share intimacy needs to feel safe and comfortable. Our nervous systems are constantly scanning our environment for safety cues, and when we create spaces that signal care and comfort, it allows us to relax into an escorts couple experience more fully. A note on neurodivergent nervous...
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When I first began working as an escort in Melbourne, I thought I understood people fairly well. I'd done years of personal development work, immersed myself in understanding various therapeutic modalities and considered myself pretty insightful about human behaviour. Looking back, I was adorably naive about just how much this...
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Most people don't realise how significantly porn has influenced their understanding of sex. I'm not here to shame anyone for watching porn. Axel and I create it ourselves. But as an intimacy provider, I witness the damage caused when people assume what they've seen on screen is an accurate instruction...
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We rarely talk about how differently people experience physical touch, and this silence creates so much unnecessary confusion in intimate relationships. I've spent over 15 years exploring physical connection with people, and I've watched countless mismatches unfold not because anyone was doing anything wrong, but because we assume touch means...
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Your body communicates in ways words never can. The rhythm of your breath, how you navigate space with another person, the quality of your touch, can all speak volumes about who you are and how you connect with others. Most of us have learnt to rely almost entirely on verbal...
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Admitting you're curious about something new sexually can feel incredibly exposing. Perhaps you've been quietly wondering about a particular experience for months, or something you came across recently sparked your interest and now you can't quite shake the thought. Whatever the case, there's often a substantial gap between private curiosity...
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We live in a society that treats sexuality like it has an expiry date, as if desire automatically switches off somewhere between your fortieth birthday and when you start complaining about how loud restaurants have become. The message seems to be that sexual vitality belongs exclusively to the young, and...
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